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Saturday, September 12, 2020

Kindness

September 12, 2020 0 Comments
We often say that this world is very cruel, very cruel, very insensitive, it does not allow us to live, our life has become a torment, it has made it difficult for us to breathe ... 
So the thing to think about is that "Aren't we part of this world?" 
"Aren't we also becoming part of this heartless world for someone?" 
 Sometimes the things that are bothering us, at the same time we are bothering someone with the same things. 
Why do we choose the bitter words and sorrows for our own caste that we cannot bear for our own caste?
Sometimes we are taking away the peace of mind of an innocent soul.
Sometimes we are taking advantage of the hardships of someone's life.
Sometimes we reach to the extent of someone's unbearable condition.
Someone is spending sleepless nights due to our harassment or selflessness.
Someone is about to quit living due to our misbehave.

Do you ever think about why we become Pharaoh we get power?
Why do we start treating our lower staff/workers or employees like they are not human and they are our slaves?

Do you ever think about why we become Yazid whenever we are unable to achieve something or we are not eligible for something?
Why do we start snatching the blessings of Allah which He gave to another person?

Do you ever think why we become zulaikha when we like someone and we use the wrong way to get that person?
Why we attempt to seduce or harras anyone whom we love or like?

These all are our own mistakes which we never consider but when something little happens to us or something goes out of the way to our will we start complaining that we are not blessed or our life is tough.

Be like Mosa, Hussain and Yusuf then you will wonder how Allah is blessing you and how you will be given what you do not even think about.


“And remember! Your Lord caused to be declared (publicly): ‘If you are grateful, I will add more (favours) unto you: but if you show ingratitude, truly My punishment is terrible indeed.” (Surah Ibrahim 14:7)

Al-Qasim ibn Muhammad reported from Aisha, RadhiAllahu Anha, that the Prophet, SallAllahu Alayhi Wa Sallam, said:
“No blessing is bestowed on a slave and he realises that it is from Allah, but the reward of giving gratitude for it is written for him. Never does Allah know the regret of His slave for a wrong action he has committed, but Allah forgives his wrong action he has committed, but Allah forgives his wrong action before the slave seeks forgiveness. No man buys a garment with his own money then puts it on and thanks Allah, but Allah will have forgiven him all his wrong action before the garment reaches his knees.”

Saturday, September 5, 2020

Tired

September 05, 2020 0 Comments
I'm tired
Without any extra burden of work
Yet I'm tired with my thoughts
I'm tired of lifting the weight of my failure  which I'm carrying since long
I'm tired of thinking that everything which is getting worse, is going to be okay soon
I'm tired of bearing all the hardships with a smile on my face
I'm tired of waiting for the good to happen to me
I'm tired of consoling myself that this exam of life will be last
And time will come when
I will laugh with my heart again, purely like happy child
I will be relieved at the lose of my life
I will feel blessed and lucky
But with the days passing I'm losing my hope, all of my energies are draining
I'm tired of thinking positive with every negative impression
I'm tired of taking care of my own self
I'm tired of explaining myself to others
All of my dreams are shattered
I'm chasing balloons that are going high in the sky
I always remain unblessed then how can I get something now?
Struggled day and night to achieve a good start, a good job, a happy life, a bleesed life, a family, a car, a vacation or anything else
My fate is just written to struggle day and night
But I'm tired of this
Only one thing which is holding me
Only one thing which is standing me up
Only one thing which gives me hope
Is my faith, my religion, and yes definitely my RAbb
RABB E KAREEM
I'm tired of losing everything and the only one Who holds me is

ٱلْسَّلَامُ The Perfection and Giver of Peace
ٱلْرَّزَّاقُ The Provider
ٱلْوَدُودُ The Most Loving

This gives me power and strength. When I remember these names of my Creator I wonder Who I can be disappointed?
These names hold me strongly and keep me standing in every storm of my life
My tiredness changes into peace
My drained power builts up again because

"Those who believe and whose hearts find comfort in the remembrance of Allah. Surely in the remembrance of Allah do hearts find comfort". (Quran 13-28)

Sunday, August 30, 2020

Don't argue about religion

August 30, 2020 1 Comments


Again a note especially for my students because I can ask them to at least read this article fully and try to understand and implement this in their lives. Other readers are also welcome.

It’s my humble request to all of you that please don’t argue on topics related to religion. These are very sensitive topics. If you have authentic sources then just explain them, they are willing to listen and understand then continue with a lighter tone of voice, otherwise don’t make it the matter of your ego that why someone disagrees with me or why someone isn’t on my path.

It’s a free world everyone has its own space and thinking capabilities. Your arguments or unhealthy discussions didn’t only effects the environment and people surrounding you, another reason is keeping quiet when you don’t have authentic knowledge to explain it, it might be possible you can add something false, incorrect, or some addition without source.

Same as when you read a book. All of the class fellows read the same book but some understand it deeply, thoroughly, and with good understanding. But some students who concentrate less or have less understanding with the same book can miss some of the topics, pages, paragraphs or if someone misses on the chapter, he/she may be unable to relate the other chapter with the missing one.

Same in such discussions relating to religion it’s not so easy to implant your idea in another person’s mind which is also well functioning and highly organized because the Creator is the same just the creation is creating a mess.

So please don’t say any harsh words to your friend, colleague, neighbors, or any person relating to you.

Just spread love, try to leave the argument, try to make a settlement if you encounter any argument.

Abu Umamah reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace, and blessings be upon him, said, “I guarantee a house on the outskirts of Paradise for one who leaves arguments even if he is right, and a house in the middle of Paradise for one who abandons lies even when joking, and a house in the highest part of Paradise for one who makes his character excellent.”

Source: Sunan Abī Dāwūd 4800

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