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Sunday, August 30, 2020

Don't argue about religion

August 30, 2020 1 Comments


Again a note especially for my students because I can ask them to at least read this article fully and try to understand and implement this in their lives. Other readers are also welcome.

It’s my humble request to all of you that please don’t argue on topics related to religion. These are very sensitive topics. If you have authentic sources then just explain them, they are willing to listen and understand then continue with a lighter tone of voice, otherwise don’t make it the matter of your ego that why someone disagrees with me or why someone isn’t on my path.

It’s a free world everyone has its own space and thinking capabilities. Your arguments or unhealthy discussions didn’t only effects the environment and people surrounding you, another reason is keeping quiet when you don’t have authentic knowledge to explain it, it might be possible you can add something false, incorrect, or some addition without source.

Same as when you read a book. All of the class fellows read the same book but some understand it deeply, thoroughly, and with good understanding. But some students who concentrate less or have less understanding with the same book can miss some of the topics, pages, paragraphs or if someone misses on the chapter, he/she may be unable to relate the other chapter with the missing one.

Same in such discussions relating to religion it’s not so easy to implant your idea in another person’s mind which is also well functioning and highly organized because the Creator is the same just the creation is creating a mess.

So please don’t say any harsh words to your friend, colleague, neighbors, or any person relating to you.

Just spread love, try to leave the argument, try to make a settlement if you encounter any argument.

Abu Umamah reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace, and blessings be upon him, said, “I guarantee a house on the outskirts of Paradise for one who leaves arguments even if he is right, and a house in the middle of Paradise for one who abandons lies even when joking, and a house in the highest part of Paradise for one who makes his character excellent.”

Source: Sunan Abī Dāwūd 4800

Friday, August 28, 2020

From an interview of Mr Edhi

August 28, 2020 0 Comments


The late Abdul Sattar Edhi was asked in an interview, "You buried thousands of helpless bodies. Have you ever cried when you see the deteriorating condition of a corpse or torture it?"

He closed his eyes and pondered, saying it was not a tortured or corpse. However, once my volunteers brought a clean dead body that looked like an old but newly and belonging to a well-educated family. His hair was oiled like white silver. And there was a clean comb. In the ironed suit, his personality looked very dignified. But it was just a dead body, Edhi Sahib seemed to think again.

Many bodies are brought to us every day. But a body that leaves its mark. I was looking at this body carefully. That's what my volunteer told me that the body was lying outside his bungalow.

As we reached the front of the bungalow, a young man from the family, who was waiting for us in a taxi, came out and quickly handed us an envelope. These are funeral expenses. Then he shortly explained, this is my father, take care of him, bathe him well and bury him. We listened a noise from the taxi. "The flight will depart in your speech". As soon as the young man heard this, he turned and got into the taxi and the taxi disappeared from sight.

Mr Edhi said he was saddened to learn of the body and when I started seeing the unfortunate man again, I felt as if he was waving his arm and begging me to help Mr Edhi. Saying that, Mr Edhi you take care dead bodies please help me also. He decided that I would take a bath and bury that body.

Then, as I began to bathe, I saw this body and think that he had done so much in his life. Will be reliable and sensitive. He had done everythingto raise his son. But the son did not have time for burial. He was more afraid of getting out of the flight than his father was in the grave.

And so my tears flowed while bathing this dead body.

Then he wiped his tears with a cloth over his shoulder, cried and said I wish we would focus more on better education and training for our children than luxury.

Monday, August 17, 2020

Allah is with you...

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I always lose in front of people in their fruitless debate...
Because I don't know how to fight...
I get confused!!!
I leave everything for Him...
It's not that I don't mind. I hurt sadly...
The smile I put on my face to hide a tear
Maybe laughs at me later...
Words can never cure my grief...
I don't say anything to anyone...
I bow before Him and say this while crying like a child...
Your servant is very weak...
I can't fight with anyone I can't stand anyone's words...
People's attitudes hurt me and I sit for hours with my sympathizers...
I let my mind feel relax...
I know He listens to me with great love and comforts me...
I put myself in front of Him...
Thinking that this time He will make my broken existence better.
Will sew with good threads...
Beautiful colors will fill me...
The color of His love...
Which is better than all the colors ...
It's in color...
And then the heart feels calm...
Where is the grief when Allah is with me???
He holds me like a mother...
Shelter me like a caregiver...
Wipes away my tears like a friend...
And Never leaves me alone...
[ Allah ] said, "Fear not. Indeed, I am with you both; I hear and I see. [Quran 20:46]

Friday, August 14, 2020

When we will get freedom???

August 14, 2020 1 Comments

We have opened our eyes to Pakistan, so it takes time for people like us to understand what a homeland is and what an independent homeland is.
Read the story written with the blood of this country, watch the spectacle of the brutality of the army occupying the Kashmir.
Swinging on the streets of Lahore, one gets an idea of ​​what slavery really is and how to get freedom, why one asks for soil.
Why does one shed blood for dust?
When I was a child, I used to look at my mother with kindness when I called soil as mother.
Then I began to understand.
The mother gives consciousness, the soil gives pride
But
We were liberated from Hindu slavery in 1947. Now tell me, what do you want freedom from?
Tell us when we will be free from the slavery of one's own thinking.
From the customs for which a father has to spend his whole life to marry a daughter.
When will a poor person be free from the worry of feeding people instead of mourning the death of someone?
How long will we be stuck thinking 'what will people say' before we do the right thing?
When will the poor get freedom to get education?
When ... !!

Monday, August 10, 2020

Woman: Reflection of life and beauty

August 10, 2020 2 Comments



You are a woman making gol roti
The princess picking cotton in the fields
The last hope of a woman who is suffering from labor pains in Gynae ward
Selling a bottle of soda with red lipstick
Teacher educating generations
Or Shaheen flying a plane
Or something else, somewhere else, doing anything
"You are a reflection of life and beauty in every situation."

You are five feet or more or less
Fits in the smallest size
Or have to take extra large
There are some wrinkles on the forehead
Or any freckles on the face
The color is slightly dull or milky white
Never make yourself small or big
Black and white
Don't be fooled
That which is inside the body is the heart and the mind
Are very beautiful

If you still have doubts
Read a line every morning and evening
"I am the best, I am the best"
Not born before me
Not like me
Every word of this scholarship is true
"You are a reflection of beauty in every situation."

Of course read stories but do not live in them
You are not lazy princess
Nor a sleeping beauty
To whom a prince will come on a white horse
Don't live in fantasy land
"That you are a reflection of life in every situation."

This wealth, this jewelry, this dress
Large car or four canal house
Clothes of a great designer in every season
Or six figure salary
With a master 
You don't accept when you're becoming a slave
When the whips of the master fall
the soul is not happy with ornaments
All you need is love, care, and respect
"That you're created to be loved and handled with care"

You are not lazy enough to get along with your partner
You can build a palace
Connect relationships of soul my love! Not in rupees
Because you yourself are very precious

"That you yourself are a reflection of life, fragrance and beauty."
"You're a woman you're yourself a superpower"

Saturday, August 8, 2020

Secondary character

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Have you ever seen
Any secondary characters in the story.
On the dark corner of the street
Under a lamp post ...
The stranger who smokes cigarettes.
Or an umbrella in a downpour.
An unknown person runs across the road,
Like running through a train window
Someone anonymous sitting on the platform.
These small secondary characters ...
Insignificant, irrelevant ...
Those who disappear from sight in a moment.
Without any pretense ... without any illusion ...
No burden of centralism, no accusation.
I just want to live that role.
I've always been central to my story.
Now I want to be a secondary character...
I want to stay away and watch...
What Nature will decide for me...
What Nature will do to me...
I want to flow with the flow...
I want to become a secondary person in my own life...

Thursday, August 6, 2020

Stillbirth

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She started countdown
The most beautiful countdown of her life
The most awaited countdown of her life
She started taking care of herself
She started climbing and going down the stairs carefully
She started measuring her abdominal girth daily
She wasn't silly, she was blessed with the most beautiful blessing
A soul started growing in herself
How she can't be so overwhelming
Regular check-ups
Perfect size and growth
A blessed time she owned
Then
Time changed
She slipped away
With every perfection
She was asking radiologists, whether to purchase blue or pink???
Then
The world changed upside down
She read the word "demise" on her scan
She was very well aware of the meaning of this word but she wasn't in that state to accept the horror of that word
She forgets to breathe, her heart seems to stop breathing
She had to go through expulsion
An unplanned unwanted unexpected expulsion
3 days and 2 nights of pain and hanging between life and death
The first time she understood the meaning of the line that
"Pain caused by emotional distress is more deeply felt and longer-lasting than that caused by physical injuries"
Then
She ruined
She smashed 
She laid wasted
She remained empty-handed
She had a stillbirth...............

Tuesday, August 4, 2020

What is your source of income?

August 04, 2020 0 Comments

One of the biggest mystery of this medical era???
Cause of many diseases having an unknown cause. (Idiopathic etiology)
So much researches and work is done and still working on this topic to find out the cause of such diseases.
For example Cancer is the most common uncontrolled cell division and growth which eventually forms a tumor. Cancer has many forms and names according to the area and location of the tumor. Cancer can grow spread and metastasize.
Some times the cause of cancer is out of our hands and it's found in our genes. A mutated gene? There are so many diseases based on sudden gene mutations for an unknown reason.
What's that? Gene is the building block of our DNA, DNA is our genetic material that describes our genetic information and characteristics. Any change in the sequence of a gene is called gene mutation which has an unknown cause.
Do you know why this happens when a disease follows an unknown cause???
Why genes get mutated?
Why a healthy couple has a mentally or physically handicapped child?
Why a young energetic person suddenly diagnosed with a fatal disease?
Let's consider it!!!
Sit and think about this!!!
Just have a look at your source of earning!!!
If you are using the right means and earning with your best efforts nothing can affect your lifestyle or your genes except Allah's will.
But if you're not using right means for source of income, earning money through cheating, stealing, corruption, murder, interest, eating the food from the plate of an orphan, keeping the share of your siblings, or any means that involves haram for you. This kind of money can give you a luxurious life but can't gift you and your generation a healthy life.
Haram earning travel in your generations and left the effects like diseases which have an unknown cause. But this is not the only reason so many other causes can correlate but if you're having haram earning then consider your lifestyle that how much you are disturbed in spite of having a luxurious life.

"O mankind: Eat of what is lawful and good on earth" (Quran 2: 168)

“They ask you about wine and gambling. Say, "In them is a great sin and [yet, some] benefit for people. But their sin is greater than their benefit…"”
(Quran 2:219)

“They ask you about wine and gambling. Say, "In them is a great sin and [yet, some] benefit for people. But their sin is greater than their benefit…"”
(Quran 2:219)


The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be to him) said:

“A time will come upon the people when they will not care as to how he gets his money whether legally or illegally.”
[Bukhari]


If you are encountering a disease with an unknown cause then first of all go for self-analysis if you're earning haram, eating your children haram, and collecting haram then please stop doing this and protect your generations from the side effects of haram money and food. This causes gene mutation which travels in generations.
But if you're not earning haram then and God decided a disease for you then He might be checking your faith upon Him. Be stable in the time of hardship, remember Him in every breath and He will definitely remember you.

"Everything good that happens to you (O Man) is from God, everything bad that happens to you is from your own actions". (Quran 4:79)

"And when I am ill, it is He who cures me". (Quran 26:80)

Why did Socrates like to drink a cup of poison instead of leaving the city??

August 04, 2020 0 Comments


The charge against Socrates was made by an Athens court. "You are misleading our youth," was the headline.
There was great wisdom in Athens in those days. People would send their children to learn from sophists like Protagoras and agree to give them farms, houses, gold, horses, animals, and anything in return.
Socrates was preached the gospel by a priest in those days, "Socrates, you are the greatest father of Athens." He went to all the great sages of Athens and began to talk to them according to a certain kind of procedure.
Wherever he went, he overwhelmed the audience.
This process enlightened the so-called wisdom of Athens. They began to create an atmosphere against Socrates. 
In doing so, they succeeded in making three major charges against Socrates.
  1. It is misleading our youth.
  2. It does not believe in our gods
  3. It presents the idea of ​​a different God that no one has seen.
There was a big court. The whole city came together. Socrates had to clean up in front of everyone. Socrates, by his wisdom, dominated the assembly during the cleansing, but who can stop this from happening? A young man was presented as a witness against Socrates. Socrates misled the young man. Only then was the crime proved.
Socrates was given two options
  1. Or leave the city
  2. Or drink a cup of poison
Now my question to you is why Socrates did not leave the city and why he liked to drink a cup of poison???
Because he preferred to die just as he lived - with dignity and courage, honoring the beliefs and values he had spent his life teaching.

بہت باریک نقطہ ہے اگر سمجھ پاؤ تو سقراط زہر نہ پیتا تو مر جاتا

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